If you're wondering about the title of this post, I found out that today is 'Wear your pajamas to work day', and this month is poetry month and couples appreciation month. (and I just wrote 'pajamas' as 'pamajas'.)
But before getting to the couples part of this, allow me to say: You don't need to be part of a romantic relationship to be worth something. And this isn't some pumped up 'strong independent gung-po woman' advice. I get depressed too. I wonder if anyone will ever care about me that way too. I wonder what's wrong with me too. And I understand, me saying that you don't need to be part of a relationship won't make everything magically better. It's a struggle, fighting against what we're told every day (via media, brain, etc). But I just want you guys to know that. You don't need a significant other to be special. You are special because you are you. God's got a plan for you and He's made you -your personality, your thoughts, your emotions, your dreams - for that. Sometimes you might have to give something up. But don't ever give up on yourself.